Whenever I allow anything but tenderness and compassion to dictate my response to life--be it self-righteous anger, moralizing, defensiveness, the pressing need to change others...I am alienated from my true self. My identity as Abba's child [a child of God] becomes ambiguous, tentative and confused. - Brennan Manning
Ways to Out Love Your Spouse
"Did you get married for what he can do for you or for what you can do for him?" I turned around to look in the eyes of one of my closest friends. She was serious. It was only a year into my marriage and in typical girlfriend fashion, I'd just given her the play …